Have you seen this?
In a few short verses, John Mayer humorously shows why our resolutions fail.
It is not that resolutions are bad, it is that they aren't enough. Great intentions, heart-felt goals, willpower, and knowledge don't produce lasting change unless they are joined with different habits. My sermon on January 12 ("Power Tools") highlighted the need for changing our habits if we want real change in our lives. They are an essential part of the "Toolkit for 2021."
Maybe the best indicator of who you will be in 2021, is not the resolutions you make, but the habits you change in 2020.